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Silvia's avatar

[Clinical trials] give women a chance to help other women and yes, you're taking a chance but the care you receive in a trial is excellent.

- Silvia
Manuela's avatar

End-of-life and financial support are not talked about enough. After so much financial investment in a loved one with mBC, you realize how much debt has been accumulated over time.

- Manuela
Maria's avatar

I feel like I cannot catch a break. I am battling with my bone metastasis, my lymphedema, my diabetes, and my idiopathic hypertension. I am at doctor appointments three days out of the week (sometimes even Saturdays and Sundays when I get scans)...

- Maria
Juanita's avatar

I create a relationship of respect. I felt judged by a provider for questioning a test, so I left them. I suggest schedule changes and choose when I need a treatment break. I make it clear I need to understand what’s going on, and that my life is important.

- Juanita
Amelia's avatar

Receiving mBC treatment takes a lot out of me mentally and physically. Being responsible for my medication and scheduled infusions is important. To manage my medications and my treatment, I make sure I have an appointment calendar reminder that allows me to see how my month will be.

- Amelia
Juanita's avatar

People don’t understand what mBC is, and they think it means automatic death. Right from the beginning, I thought I was going to die.  I have had many challenges throughout this journey. Arthritis and treatment side effects take away from how I can manage motherhood. My children keep me grounded.

- Juanita
Marialuisa's avatar

I was having really bad side effects from my meds. I learned from my support groups that I could ask to lower the dosage or change the schedule, so I did. She tells me, ‘I am the breast specialist here and I know how this medicine should be taken!’ It made me feel small, and I did not push the subject again.

- Marialuisa
Patti's avatar

I want support groups to be a place to uplift each other, but also vent. We are dealing with a life-threatening disease that isn’t always positive or pretty. There are groups that have resource pages, while others have discussion boards. A good combination of everything would be ideal and very helpful to our MBC community.

- Patti
Lakia's avatar

The one thing that bothers me is the lack of affordable dental coverage, and I wish someone had told me about the importance of consistent dental check-ups before all of the decay. Fixing my smile would make me whole again. I really don’t feel as confident. It’s a constant reminder of my disease and the long-term journey I have.

- Lakia
Silvia's avatar

mBC caused my DVT, lymphedema, and high blood pressure. I take my blood pressure fairly regularly...I can be forgetful, but handle my medications well by tracking my off and on weeks with the chemo pill. The rest of my medications I take at the same time. I have them all re-filled on the same day of the month, which helps track them.

- Silvia
Darlene's avatar

For the past two and a half years, I have become an advocate and caregiver for my mom, initially helping with her diagnosis and maneuvering the medical system. As time went on, I attend doctors' appointments, make sure she has her medication, and make treatment choices. The process of caretaking has been exhausting,  tiresome, and long.

- Darlene
Silvia's avatar

[Clinical trials] give women a chance to help other women and yes, you're taking a chance but the care you receive in a trial is excellent.

- Silvia
Manuela's avatar

End-of-life and financial support are not talked about enough. After so much financial investment in a loved one with mBC, you realize how much debt has been accumulated over time.

- Manuela
Maria's avatar

I feel like I cannot catch a break. I am battling with my bone metastasis, my lymphedema, my diabetes, and my idiopathic hypertension. I am at doctor appointments three days out of the week (sometimes even Saturdays and Sundays when I get scans)...

- Maria
Juanita's avatar

I create a relationship of respect. I felt judged by a provider for questioning a test, so I left them. I suggest schedule changes and choose when I need a treatment break. I make it clear I need to understand what’s going on, and that my life is important.

- Juanita
Amelia's avatar

Receiving mBC treatment takes a lot out of me mentally and physically. Being responsible for my medication and scheduled infusions is important. To manage my medications and my treatment, I make sure I have an appointment calendar reminder that allows me to see how my month will be.

- Amelia
Juanita's avatar

People don’t understand what mBC is, and they think it means automatic death. Right from the beginning, I thought I was going to die.  I have had many challenges throughout this journey. Arthritis and treatment side effects take away from how I can manage motherhood. My children keep me grounded.

- Juanita
Marialuisa's avatar

I was having really bad side effects from my meds. I learned from my support groups that I could ask to lower the dosage or change the schedule, so I did. She tells me, ‘I am the breast specialist here and I know how this medicine should be taken!’ It made me feel small, and I did not push the subject again.

- Marialuisa
Patti's avatar

I want support groups to be a place to uplift each other, but also vent. We are dealing with a life-threatening disease that isn’t always positive or pretty. There are groups that have resource pages, while others have discussion boards. A good combination of everything would be ideal and very helpful to our MBC community.

- Patti
Lakia's avatar

The one thing that bothers me is the lack of affordable dental coverage, and I wish someone had told me about the importance of consistent dental check-ups before all of the decay. Fixing my smile would make me whole again. I really don’t feel as confident. It’s a constant reminder of my disease and the long-term journey I have.

- Lakia
Silvia's avatar

mBC caused my DVT, lymphedema, and high blood pressure. I take my blood pressure fairly regularly...I can be forgetful, but handle my medications well by tracking my off and on weeks with the chemo pill. The rest of my medications I take at the same time. I have them all re-filled on the same day of the month, which helps track them.

- Silvia
Darlene's avatar

For the past two and a half years, I have become an advocate and caregiver for my mom, initially helping with her diagnosis and maneuvering the medical system. As time went on, I attend doctors' appointments, make sure she has her medication, and make treatment choices. The process of caretaking has been exhausting,  tiresome, and long.

- Darlene